One wish

If I had one wish that I could make, and it would come true without fail, what would it be? This question not only caused me to assess and reevaluate what is important to me and why, but it also helped me to be more self-assured about what I want out of life. Needs are many, so too are wants, and to their pursuit there is no end; so we should be aware of their order of importance.

After deep thought, I answered the question. I would wish for a long and fulfilling career. For me, writing is more than work; it’s synonymous with happiness, purpose, and life even. Of all the needs and wants I have, my writing is a special combination of need and want that is linked to many other things, much like a support structure that holds the elements of my life together.

Asking yourself what one wish you would want granted is an effective way to initiate self-contemplation. You will find out what you want and need, and then prioritize them. It’s not just about making a wish, but it’s about getting your priorities right. Though you choose one thing in the end, the process of assigning importance to each candidate helps you to see your desires clearer. The benefits lie in the process and not just the answer.