When speaking puts you at risk of losing, And being silent is no different.
by Innocent Mwatsikesimbe — from What Is Love?, chapter 6
In other words
Sometimes honesty feels dangerous because saying what you need may push someone farther away. Silence feels dangerous too; what you meant and how much they matter may remain unknown. Neither option offers safety. Both seem capable of ending in the same loss.
That fear grows when a relationship is already breaking down. Words are chosen carefully, but the listener seems to have decided. Saying more can add anger; saying less cannot close the distance. Care cannot guarantee that the right words still exist. Sincerity cannot reopen a decision that already appears final. Even then, reaching them still matters after communication has stopped offering a clear path back.
AI-generated from the author's own text.
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