poetry
What Is Love?
2013 · A book by Innocent Mwatsikesimbe

What Is Love?, first published in 2013, is a collection of thirty poems about falling in love, losing it, and finding out what is left afterwards. The question in its title gets argued rather than answered: love arrives as an oasis after a walk through desert, it costs most when it goes, and one poem refuses it outright on the grounds that a heart is too valuable to hand over. The situations are specific — betrayal, unrequited love, an abusive marriage, a pregnancy hidden behind a lie.
Every poem opens with a line naming its situation, and many are not Innocent Mwatsikesimbe speaking at all but people he imagines: a woman deciding to leave, a mother whose escape is stopped at the bus stop, a man who says he is married when he is not. It is the earliest book in the library, built from plain speech and rhyme rather than ornament. What the collection settles on is nearer to self-respect than romance: that loving your own life is where any of it has to start.
What Is Love? — Copyright © 2013 by Innocent Mwatsikesimbe. All rights reserved.
Chapters
- 1How to heal
- 2If only
- 3My oasis
- 4Your birth
- 5It matters to me
- 6A great distance
- 7Have you lost your mind?
- 8Lost in your eyes
- 9Take me as I am
- 10That's just great!
- 11Full of surprises
- 12Feeling alone
- 13A bottle of whiskey and a harmonica
- 14I don't believe in love
- 15To be amazing
- 16Do you remember that night?
- 17What are you doing here?
- 18Her choice
- 19You're not company, you're family
- 20Weary eyes
- 21Nothing compares to you
- 22Unintentional heartbreak
- 23She married the wrong guy
- 24My baby
- 25At the stroke of midnight
- 26No one needs to know
- 27Pathological liar
- 28A conceited woman
- 29Stop staring at me
- 30I'm married
Sparks from this book
- 3Meeting her symbolized an ending, The ending of loneliness. Meeting her symbolized a beginning, The beginning of happiness.
- 4To me, baby, you are God-given. For your birth, to God, thanks I'm frequently giving. And I pray for a good future. One with God, you and me in the…
- 6When speaking puts you at risk of losing, And being silent is no different.
- 11It's not the surprise that matters, it's how you react to it.
- 14My heart is valuable. It connects me to who I truly am. All my dreams and wishes. What I want and what I don't want, What I love and what I hate.
- 20My eyes grew weary, and I stopped searching, Because I understood That I have it already. That which I am looking for, to give to my soul as…